what would he say about you?
These two questions by themselves are powerful and they should make you take a look at yourself... maybe a look in the mirror you don't want to take right now. Now there is no condemnation or guilt here. We have to remember that God's not finished with any of us yet. This is just an honest look to see if anything needs to be changed.
Part of these classes includes writing a marriage purpose statement. Some online sites will talk about writing one together, husband and wife but this is one JUST FOR ME. It's not a list of desires of things I want to happen or ways I want my husband to change. This is ALL ABOUT ME and how I want to intentionally live as my husbands wife. It's about how I want ME to be. You see, too many times we think only about the things that our spouse needs to do to make our marriages better. We live in default mode just floating through our life and our marriage reacting to life and our spouse as 'things' happen with no plan of action. What we need to ask ourselves is :